Many couples avoid sex during pregnancy because of fear of hurting the baby. In this matter the safest option is to discuss with your doctor or midwife. If there are no complications you can have sex as long as you want or you enjoy. However, fatigue and nausea may turn off the expecting mother to have sex in first trimester and in the third trimester she may feel too huge and tired to have sex.
People have many anxieties and myths about intercourse during pregnancy. Let’s discuss few here.
Is sex safe?
Having sex with your partner is absolutely safe if your pregnancy is progressing normally, few exceptions to keep in mind are history of miscarriage, preterm labor, cervical weakness or low-lying placenta. Some women may experience spotting or bleeding during intercourse in their first trimester, however there is nothing to worry about it but you should check about this with your doctor or gynecologist if you have any doubt.
Is oral sex safe when I’m pregnant?
Oral sex is completely safe. You can enjoy licking but blowing air into your vagina or ejaculation in your genital area is a big NO for you as it may cause air bubble into your blood circulation. This happens rarely but this could block a blood vessel which could be life threatening for you or your baby. In case if your partner had oral herpes you should avoid oral sex completely during your third trimester.
Can sex during pregnancy cause a miscarriage?
You have to worry only if your doctor says that you have specific placenta problem or that you’re at high risk for a miscarriage or pre-term birth. Also keep in mind that orgasm may cause mild contractions but these contractions are generally temporary and harmless. Thus, there is no reason to avoid making love to your partner.
Does sex during pregnancy harm the baby?
Sexual activity won’t affect your baby. The amniotic sac and the strong muscles of the uterus keeps your baby safe. Thick mucus plug that seals the cervix protects you and the baby against infection. However if you feel any kind of discomfort you should avoid it and speak to your doctor.
What are the best sexual positions during pregnancy?
You have to be experimental to find the most comfortable sex position for you. In the later stage of your pregnancy intercourse may become more challenging for you. Your partner should avoid putting his weight on your abdomen. You should also avoid lie down on your tummy as well. That’s why missionary position (man on top) is not advisable. Few safe positions you can try are:
- Lie sideways – This helps your partner to keep most of his weight off your uterus.
- Lie side-by-side or spoons position – This involves no weight on your belly and allows for only shallow penetration.
- Get on top – This position also doesn’t put weight on your abdomen and allows you to control the depth of penetration. This also provides higher sexual satisfaction in pregnant women.
- Make love sitting down – In this position try to sit on your partner’s lap as he sits on a chair. You can control the depth of penetration by standing up or by squatting down.
You should also maintain your hygiene before and after making love. Keep your pelvic area clean after intercourse with tissue paper or clean cloth. Any kind of lubricating creams or gels should be avoided as it may cause allergies or irritation to your skin. For any concern you shouldn’t hesitate to speak to your doctor.
Also check out few things that you should know about pregnancy, birth, postpartum recovery, breastfeeding, babies, and being a first-time-parent.
